Don't Compete & Stop Gossiping. Be your own kind of beautiful!

What is sexy?

Honestly, I'm nut with all the post in internet comparing fat woman with skinny woman.

It's kinda divided woman into two types. Chub and thin. Does it really matter?

Why compete over the look while the most important part is what lies within us.

Never ever judge someone based on the outlook appearance. You can't know someone just from the outside look. 

Chub woman making fun of the thin one. The thin one teasing the chub one. What's the purpose? What are they trying to prove?

For me, those who loves to compare and compete for such thing are the ones that actually feel insecure of herself. 

Beauty lies on the beholder eyes and the sense of beauty is different for everyone. 

Be your kind of beautiful. You like curve? Work for it. You want to be chub (like I do), eat like monster (like me too).

Focus on yourself. It's your goal, why involve others?

If you envy someone, turns it into a motivation instead on finding ways to insult them just because you cannot be like them. 

Sometime our physical look aren't something we can fully control. I eat like monster, 24/7 with food and yet never gain much weight. I have friend who's on strict diet and eat little but gain weigh easily. 

It's not even an option for some case. 

Try to understand each other. Look more into their "inside" than concern more on the outside.

For me sexy is intelligence. Intelligent woman is sexy but the sexiest one is woman with brain and heart.

Someone with big heart and full of knowledge. Kind and gentle but also very independent & reliable. 

She knows her value and what she deserves. Aware of what's worth the fight and what's need to walk away from.

Woman with big goals and work hard to achieve them. Woman who motivates & inspires other. 

That is beauty & sexy.

So stop looking around you to compete and gossip on making fool of other woman. 

Start to focus on yourself. Be what you want to be. Listen to others who speak of advise and motivation and shut your ears to negativity.

Remember, people will always have something to say, whether you do good or otherwise. 

Be smart to ignore that.

I'm not perfect but I'm intend to be better than I was yesterday. 

For those who wronged me, I forgive all of ya. And for those I've hurt, I hope you'll forgive me sooner than later.

Now...I'm gonna work my ass to achieve my goal. It's my life, it's my journey, it's my story. I'll be the one who write my own story. 

To those who suffer from depression out there, I'm telling you this.

I know how hard it is to hit the bottom rock and to go thru the night with your eyes wide open and your mind goes numb. That feeling of wanted to off and disappear to somewhere no one knows you. 

I understand. It's okay to fall no matter how many times but always remember to pick yourself up and stand again, even stronger than before.

It's just a one bad day or one bad month, not a bad life. 

Something better will come sooner than you thought. Have faith in yourself and trust God knows better.


:)